Safety First
The most important part of any kink practice is knowing how to pause or stop. Set your safeword and aftercare preferences — these are stored only on your device.
A safeword is a word or phrase that immediately pauses or stops any activity — no questions asked. Choose one that you'd never say accidentally in context.
⚑ The traffic light system (Yellow = slow down, Red = stop) is a widely-used alternative — select “Yellow/Red” above if you prefer it.
For situations where speaking isn't possible (e.g. during bondage). Common options: 3 taps, drop an object, squeeze hand twice.
Aftercare is how you take care of yourself (and your partner) after a scene. Knowing this in advance makes it easier to give and receive the care you need.
Safety info stored locally on your device only