Your Yes/No/
Maybe List
Map your desires and set clear boundaries. Explore 150+ kink activities across 10 categories — from consent foundations to edge play.
The Features
150+ Activities
Explore every corner of kink across 10 carefully curated categories. From foundations like consent and communication to advanced edge play.Every activity links to our Kinktionary for detailed education.
Beyond Yes/No
Our 5-level rating system captures the full spectrum of your desires. Track your experience level, giving/receiving preferences, willingness to try for partners, and add personal notes.
Total Privacy
Your data stays on your device. No accounts. No servers. No data collection. When you share with a partner, links expire in 24 hours with encrypted storage.
Partner Compare
Generate a secure link. Your partner completes their own checklist. See where your desires align and discover conversation starters for negotiation.
The Spectrum
Beyond Yes/No/Maybe
Express the full spectrum of your desires with our nuanced rating system.
Plus: Experience Level • Giving/Receiving • Partner Willingness • Notes
How It Works
Choose Categories
Select from 10 categories across foundations, power dynamics, sensation, bondage, and more. Start with foundations or dive into all 10.
Rate Activities
Use our 5-level system (Hard No → Love It) to rate 150+ activities. Each activity links to our Kinktionary for education.
Get Insights
View your preferences visualized across categories with detailed breakdowns of your interests and limits.
Share (Optional)
Generate a private 24-hour link to compare preferences with a partner. See mutual interests and start conversations.
Partner Compatibility
After you both complete the list independently, KNKI generates a side-by-side comparison. See exactly which activities you both rated "Yes" — your green-light zone — and discover where your preferences differ, creating a natural starting point for honest negotiation.
No awkward guessing. No assumptions. Just a clear map of mutual desires and boundaries to explore together.
Ready to
Explore?
Your journey of self-discovery starts here. No judgment. No data collection. Just you and your authentic desires.
Start Your ChecklistFAQ
Is my data private?
Yes. All data is stored locally on your device using browser storage. We never see or store your responses. Partner sharing uses temporary encrypted links that expire after 24 hours.
Do I need to create an account?
No. You can use the full checklist without creating an account. Your progress is saved automatically in your browser.
How long does it take?
Most people complete all 150+ activities in 15-30 minutes. You can also save your progress and continue later.
Can I share results with my partner?
Yes. After completing the checklist, you can generate a secure link to share. Both partners complete the list, and you can see a compatibility comparison.
What is a Yes/No/Maybe list?
A Yes/No/Maybe list is a communication tool used in BDSM and kink relationships to help partners express their interest or boundaries around specific activities. Each person rates activities as "Yes" (interested), "No" (not for me), or "Maybe" (open to discussing). Our version uses a 5-level scale for more nuance.
What's the difference between a hard limit and a soft limit?
A hard limit is a firm boundary — an activity you will not do under any circumstances. A soft limit is something you're hesitant about but might consider with the right partner, in the right context, or with more experience. Our checklist helps you identify and communicate both.
How do couples use this checklist together?
Each partner completes the checklist independently, then uses the partner share feature to compare. You'll see activities where both of you said "Yes" (mutual interests) and areas where preferences differ — which creates a starting point for honest conversation rather than awkward guessing.
Is this suitable for beginners?
Absolutely. The checklist starts with foundations — consent, communication, and trust — before moving into more specific activities. Each activity links to our Kinktionary so you can learn about anything unfamiliar before rating it.
Yes/No/Maybe List
The most comprehensive BDSM preference checklist