KNOW YOUR
DESIRES
The most comprehensive BDSM preference checklist. 150+ activities across 10 categories.
The Features
150+ Activities
Explore every corner of kink across 10 carefully curated categories. From foundations like consent and communication to advanced edge play.Every activity links to our Kinktionary for detailed education.
Beyond Yes/No
Our 5-level rating system captures the full spectrum of your desires. Track your experience level, giving/receiving preferences, willingness to try for partners, and add personal notes.
Total Privacy
Your data stays on your device. No accounts. No servers. No data collection. When you share with a partner, links expire in 24 hours with encrypted storage.
Partner Compare
Generate a secure link. Your partner completes their own checklist. See where your desires align and discover conversation starters for negotiation.
The Spectrum
Beyond Yes/No/Maybe
Express the full spectrum of your desires with our nuanced rating system.
Plus: Experience Level • Giving/Receiving • Partner Willingness • Notes
How It Works
Choose Categories
Select which areas to explore. Start with foundations or dive into all 10 categories.
Rate Activities
Swipe through each activity. Use our 5-level system to capture your true feelings.
Get Insights
See your preferences visualized. Discover patterns and areas for exploration.
Share (Optional)
Generate a secure link for partners. Compare results and find compatibility.
Ready to
Explore?
Your journey of self-discovery starts here. No judgment. No data collection. Just you and your authentic desires.
Start Your ChecklistFAQ
Is my data private?
Yes. All data is stored locally on your device using browser storage. We never see or store your responses. Partner sharing uses temporary encrypted links that expire after 24 hours.
Do I need to create an account?
No. You can use the full checklist without creating an account. Your progress is saved automatically in your browser.
How long does it take?
Most people complete all 150+ activities in 15-30 minutes. You can also save your progress and continue later.
Can I share results with my partner?
Yes. After completing the checklist, you can generate a secure link to share. Both partners complete the list, and you can see a compatibility comparison.
Yes/No/Maybe List
The most comprehensive BDSM preference checklist